Beauty, brains, love or friendship…what really matters!!??

One more topic that really eats my brains in..RELATIONSHIPS…what really matters to u when u look for a life partner…well in majority of cases i ve seen guys seek for beauty..and girls seek for true love..

ok first lets talk about external beauty..the fact that i hate it is..when guys looking for their better half..1st thing they see is..BEAUTY..come on ya..is it all that really matters to u??? how many days will that beauty remain??? at the end what really matters according to me atleast is..how that person is with u..good heart..compatibility…understanding..trust…and ofcourse love are the most important ingredients of any relationship…u cannot love a person just because he/she is not beautiful right??? few days back i heard a guy saying to a girl whom he promised to be together that am balancing between ur beauty and heart..what the hell..is he looking for a barbie doll or a girl who ll stick by his side no matter what..and things like when we ll be together people should not say look the guy is so handsome and the girl is ok..rubbish..accept the person way he/she is..not for the beauty that god gave her/him..look at the heart she s been gifted with..and ya this is not only for guys..girls too..i get sick when girls throw attitude for being beautiful..i mean how can they be proud of something that god gave them..be proud of something which u ve achieved on ur own guys..not what u got readily..and ya….dont lose ur confidence just because someone has told u that u r not beautiful..every1 s got something unique in them..and being beautiful is not just the end of life..u ve got a beautiful heart that has to be treasured always..cause people who really know u love u for that..not for ur EXTERNAL BEAUTY..and if some one is judging u on ur external beauty..that person has never understood u…!!!

BRAINS..ofcourse a bit of common sense is important …but judging a person on the basis of his marks at college…huh…if a person does not score good at studies..is a failure at studies..and is not intelligent..n blah blah..is he really a failure in life???is it what matters to u??? does the love for that person ever matter??? the love he/she bestows upon u..makes u feel so special..and just leaving a person cause he/she s not intelligent..is being dumb!!! if she/he s not intelligent..u be the one..atleast that person is good at something..which u r not

FRIENDSHIP…ahhhh the most beautiful relationship i have ever experienced…if its pure nothing in the world can separate the two friends..and its not like the two people involved should always be same in their cognitions..even differences complement each other ..some one truly said that friends are the one who ll stick to your side..when the whole world turn their backs at u…be it with any1..a small kid…an elderly grand pa..or ur college mate or a sibling..treasure them..till u die..cause if u really feel God..u sense him first in ur family..then friends..never let any misunderstanding crop up..if there is also..clear it..be straight forward when u among your friends..cause the more u ll hide..the more u ll suffer and carry that burden in ur heart throughout…!!! this is dedicated to all my friends..who have stuck to my side throughout..cause they are the one holding me..in my bad times..and partying with me in my good times i really thank God for them!!!

LOVE…at the end..what really matters is love…be it for ur parents,friends,siblings,grand ma, grand pa..uncle aunty..or even ur pet…and ofcourse for that someone special..love truly..not because you want the other person to love u..that becomes give and take..but always remember the more u give..the more u ll get…live life to the fullest and keep loving…

and please please its my sincere request to every1..dont go with external beauty..that may deceive…dont go with intelligence..that may leave u..on the whole dont be prejudiced..go with what ur heart says..never leave true friends..cause there may be very few who truly and eternally accept u for being their s ..and do not judge u on your external beauty or how good u r at certain work per se..and love..do not make false promises to any1..cause u might hurt that person for his/her whole life….and this is for people who think that they are not beautiful externally..chill..the person who have made u realise that ur  not beautiful..and that ur heart does not matter really..is the one who never understood u..or never valued u..may be u were stuck to a wrong person…the person who ll accept u..will accept u for ur simplicity and the person u r…and not because he/she is worried about his social image of not getting a beautiful partner

so guys just be yourself..and never change for the world..cause god has gifted you with something..which others dont have ..

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~ by Neha Saboo Taparia on August 11, 2008.